God works in a VERY misterious way

the first words i said to her when she was my office mate was..."wow, this is igay's masterpiece!", she was coloring a picture back then. Her reply was a cold grin and simple "thanks!". As time went by we became friends and foes in the same time hahaha...we were a perfect team in throwing a farewell party and deciding what presents to give for friends who were leaving the office. For four straight years we were just friends, i got involved with many female students of mine (she hated me for that and the reasons she rejected me two times) and she...well, she lived her life.
Somehow in 2004, all of a sudden i fell for this girl, before we knew it we are happily married with 3 kids already.
X file facts:
1. she isn't my type
2. i am obviously not her type
3. she hates my guts
4. we never tried to get closer towards each other
5. she thinks i am "a player"????
6.we never had feelings toward each other..why all of sudden????
7. until the moment i'm writing this we still don't understand how can we get married?